Inishowen Women's Outreach

Inishowen Women's Outreach

Providing support for women suffering domestic violence.

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Womens Outreach can provide women with information on their rights and entitlements to all benefits, including health board services, housing, legal matters and can also refer to or provide an advocacy service for women where necessary. We also provide court accompaniment, for women who may feel intimidated at the prospect of facing court appearances/procedures alone. At all times, the service is ‘woman centred’, providing invaluable support at a time when the woman is likely to be under huge emotional, psychological and financial pressure. It has been the experience in the past that many women have been unable to draw on family or community for support in their situation- where family might be unwilling to become involved, the outreach provides constant support to the woman.

- Domestic Violence is defined as:
‘The use of physical or emotional force or threat of physical force, including sexual violence, in close adult relationships…. the term ‘domestic violence’ goes beyond physical violence…….it can also involve emotional abuse; the destruction of property; isolation from friends, family and other potential sources of support; threats to others, including children; stalking and control over access to money, personal items, food, transport and the telephone’. (Report of the Task Force on Violence against Women 1997)

Violence against women occurs in all sorts of social classes and is equally prevalent in both urban and rural areas.

Domestic Violence is generally understood to include:

PHYSICAL ABUSE

Slapping, hitting, kicking, burning, punching, choking, shoving, beating, throwing things, locking out, restraining and other acts designed to injure, hurt, endanger or cause physical pain.

SEXUAL ABUSE

Sexual abuse in the relationship can include the following tactics; Forcing someone to have sex when she does not want to; forcing someone to have sex with others, or watch others; criticism of performance; sadism; anything that makes her feel demeaned or violated. This form of abuse may also include forcing a woman into reproductory decisions that are contrary to her wishes or forcing her to have sex without protection against disease or pregnancy.

Sexual abuse in the relationship often reinforces the subservience of the victim and induces feelings of humiliation and degradation. With sexual violence it it possible to inflict an intense level of pain over a prolonged period of time without killing the woman

EMOTIONAL ABUSE

Consistently doing or saying things to hurt, insult, shame, embarrass, ridicule, demean, belittle or mentally hurt another person.This can include calling the person names such as fat, lazy, stupid, bitch, silly ugly. Telling someone they are worthless, an unfit mother, is undesirable, is unwanted. Emotional abuse can also includes witholding affection or attention, witholding money, flaunting infidelity, isolating woman from family/friends, engaging in destructive acts, manipulation; hurting or threatening children or pets; threatening to abandon; threatening to take the children away. May also include refusing to help someone who is sick or hurt; ridiculing her most valued beliefs, religion, race, heritage, or class; insulting her family or friends. (From the Domestic Violence Sourcebook, Dawn Bradley Berry,(1998)

DOES YOUR PARTNER

Control who you see and what you do?
Put you down and humiliate you?
Hurt you physically?
Make you have sex when you don't want?
Control how the money is spent?
Not want you to have/spend time with friends?
Threaten to take the children away?
Destroy your things or smash up the furniture?
Threaten to harm himself if you leave?
Turn into a 'nice' person outside the home?
Apologise after attacking you and promise he won't do it again - but he does?

ARE YOU

Afraid for yourself and your children?
Feeling guilty or ashamed about what is happening?
Isolated with no one to talk to?
Afraid to express an opinion when he is around?
Hiding bruises or making excuses for injuries caused by him?
Finding it hard to be enthusiastic about life?
Always watching what you say or do so he won't be angry?
Feeling like you're going mad or you just wish it was all over?
(From Lean on Me - An information guide for women living with domestic violence, Adapt House, Limerick, p2 &3)

Information, support and advice is central to enabling women to overcome violence. Once violence is disclosed, a woman needs easily accessible information on options available to her, and once she has decided on a preffered course of action, a range of services should then be triggered.

Currently within the North West Health Board Region, all frontline services for Violence Against Women are delivered by the non-governmental organisation sector, including for example, Sligo Rape Crisis Centre , Donegal Rape Crisis Centre , Donegal Domestic Violence Refuge Service Inishowen Womens Outreach Service, Womens Centre, Letterkenny, Outreach Service and Counselling Service, WAVES Coalition, WEAVE (:Women emerging from Violence and Abuse),Women Awake and Sligo Social Services.

In the North West Region in 2002

Sligo Rape Crisis Centre received 1,418 calls
Donegal Rape Crisis Centre received 1,437 calls
Donegal Women’s Refuge received 1,717 help calls
The Sexual Assault Unit at Letterkenny General hospital had 27 attendances.

In 1999, the Inishowen Women's Outreach service dealt with 90 cases of Domestic Violence.
In 2001 they dealt with 79 cases.
In 2003 this figure had increased to 661 cases.


Inishowen Women’s Outreach was established in 1994 by a small group of local people in Carndonagh who were aware that no services existed in Inishowen for female victims of Domestic Violence and their families.

As Letterkenny (50 miles) was the only place in Donegal to provide a service for victims of Domestic Violence, this group became aware, by working with women involved in violent relationships, that distance presented additional difficulties/problems. The outreach centre was established as a first place of call for those women seeking help and support in their own area. The outreach was set up to assist these women make their own choices at their own pace, with the full support, respect and commitment of our trained workers and volunteers.

Inishowen Womens Outreach was formalised in 1996 and came under the umbrealla of Action Inishowen, a community based information service. We are also affiliated with the National Network of Womens Refuges Support Services of Ireland and Women’s Aid. We currently have two members on the Regional Steering Committee on Violence Against Women.

Our vision for the future is to continue to increase awareness of the issue of domestic violence and its effects, and to continue to enhance exsisting services and develop new services. The empowerment of women who are experiencing or recovering from the crime of domestic violence is central to this process. The group vision is to negotiate second stage'crisis' housing from the local authority and to provide aftercare support and education to women and children recovering from domestic violence.

Services available at the outreach:
Listening Ear
Group Counselling
Child and Family Support Services
Drop In Centre
Court Accompaniment
Adult and Child Counselling
Rape Crisis Centre Outreach
Mothers and Toddlers
Adult Literacy
Inishowen Disability Action Group
Art Therapy

Inishowen Women's Outreach:
to avail of our services or for further information contact us on

Telephone (074) 93 73232
or
e-mail us at: inishowenwomensoutreach@eircom.net




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